Jerry Don Boydstun

jerry boydstun

March 16, 1946 ~ July 30, 2025

Jerry Don Boydstun was born on March 16,1946, in Burkburnett, Texas, to Inez (Best) Boydstun and William Ernest Boydstun, Jr., and died in Longview, Texas, on July 30, 2025. He is survived by his wife, Deborah Ann Boydstun of Longview and his son, Stephen Parton and wife Christen and granddaughter Claire Grace Parton of White Oak, Texas, his sister, Diann Roberts of Duncan, Oklahoma, his Aunt Rosa Tidwell and cousin Joe Best of Comanche, Oklahoma, and many more beloved cousins on both sides of the family. Jerry Don grew up in North Texas and when he was nine years old, he moved to Stephens County, Oklahoma, where he lived until 1964 when he graduated from Velma-Alma High School. He was an avid sports enthusiast and played varsity basketball and track. In August of 1964 Jerry Don joined the United States Army and after basic training he was assigned to study Russian at the Defense Language Institute in Monterey, California where he graduated in September of 1965 as a Russian linguist. He was then stationed in Chitose, Japan, where he served as a Russian linguist for the next two and one-half years. After being honorably discharged from the service he moved to San Francisco, California, and began working for the Veterans Administration until he was accepted as a student by the University of California in nearby Berkeley. In June of 1975 he graduated with a degree in Slavic Languages and Literature. Jerry Don remained proud of his connection with the University of California for the rest of his life. After graduation he moved to the Midland-Odessa area of Texas where he began working in the field of engineering using computer-aided plant design. For the next forty years he worked for various engineering firms in Midland, Odessa, San Antonio, Palestine, Abilene, Longview and Anchorage, Alaska. In 1997 he met his beloved wife, Deborah, while living in Palestine, Texas. They were married on July 25, 1998, in Palestine and moved to Longview in 2000 where they have lived ever since. Jerry Don spent most of that time working at the Texas Eastman Chemical Complex while Deborah taught school for the Pine Tree School District. Jerry Don loved languages and could speak, read and write Russian and Spanish and knew conversational Japanese. He loved reading, especially history, and in particular, history of the War Between the States. He was very active in several Southern Heritage organizations. He loved all animals, and his dogs were especially dear to him. A memorial service for Mr. Boydstun will be held on Saturday, August 16, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. at White Oak Community Church. Visitation will begin one hour prior to the service. Cremation arrangements have been entrusted to Horn-Nail-Haggard Funeral Home.

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  1. Don and I met in Midland, TX over 40 years ago and remained friends the entire time. He had loyal friends from his time in the military while stationed in Japan.
    We had a lot of adventures together and he will be greatly missed.
    Russell Conkling

  2. My deepest condolences to Debbie and the entire family. I was stunned and saddened when I learned yesterday of Don’s passing. He was a friend of nearly 20 years and one who I came to depend on. A man who not only talked the talk, but walked the walk. All who knew him will miss him. My prayers are with him and his loved ones. The world is not quite as good a place without him in it.
    Steve Lucas

  3. I loved and respected Don from the first time we met because he obviously loved and respected my best friend. Don was so good to Debbie’s family, especially her parents and Stephen. A brilliant conversationalist with great personality and wit. I treasured his friendship. He will truly be missed. Rest in peace.

  4. I had many wonderful times with Jerry Don. From the Army in the sixties, thru his many visits to Oregon. I quiet, brilliant thoughtful person with a big heart.
    Thank you for your serivce soldier..
    Dave Grooters

  5. Our condolences to the entire Boydstun family. I consider him a good and honorable man. He portrayed an honest and trustworthy character and we feel he was a blessed person. The world has lost a good man.

  6. Terry and Jean Keller says:

    Boydstun embodied all the virtues of a gentleman and a scholar. He was just and kind, sincere and thoughtful, a living example of antebellum Southern Gentility. He was a lifelong friend and mentor to Jean and me. He will be sorely missed and long remembered. Meeting is the beginning of parting, as all that live must surely die.We can only lose the treasures we have had. We are grateful to have known him.

  7. Terry and Jean Keller says:

    856th RRD, 199th Inf.

  8. Richard Andrew Stettenbenz says:

    In 1964 Jerry (Don) & I were stationed at the Monterey Russian Language School in the Army at the Presidio of Monterey, California. We were great friends as well as both baseball & basketball team mates. When we graduated in September, 1965, he was stationed in Japan & I was sent to Germany. We finally got back together in Saratoga Springs, NY, in 2022 where Jerry was spending time with a sick Army buddy from his Japanese Days. It was like we were never apart after 57 years. We spent the day together going over old times like it was yesterday. He showed me a picture of his wife Debbie with a big grin on his face. He was a happy man. That day will live in my heart forever. Jerry will always be in my prayers. God Bless this good man.

  9. My cousin Jerry Don was one of the most intelligent and kindest people I’ve ever known. He loved sharing stories about our Boydstun family history, and after I graduated from high school, he took me and our grandmother on a wonderful trip to California. We drove from Texas to Los Angeles and up to San Francisco, and I’ll never forget the way he proudly showed us UC Berkeley or the meal we shared in Chinatown.

    He told me stories about San Francisco in the 1960s—how lively Haight-Ashbury was and how bands like The Doors played in small venues before they became famous. He truly lived an interesting life and had such a gift for storytelling.

    I hadn’t seen him for a couple of years, but I was grateful to visit with him at a family wedding. Family was always important to Jerry Don, and he made a special effort to be there for graduations, weddings, and the milestones that mattered most.

    My deepest condolences go out to Debbie, Stephen and his wife Christen, their daughter Claire Grace, and to all of Jerry Don’s family and friends. He was so proud of his loved ones, and he always spoke of them with such joy.

    May his memory be a blessing.

    Scottish Blessing:
    “Those we love don’t go away,
    They walk beside us every day.
    Unseen, unheard, but always near,
    Still loved, still missed, and very dear.”


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